Oral sex is a very intimate experience that people often want to perfect. It can feel intimidating for those who are new to the adventure and seemingly elusive for those who are more experienced. Sloppy head, also known as deep throat technique, can greatly enhance the experience for both partners in a way nothing else can. It’s an art form and one that can be quite intimidating to master, but once you do, the experience will certainly be all the more pleasurable.

What Is Sloppy Head?

Sloppy head is a particular oral sex technique that involves the partner performing fellatio swallowing the partner’s penis all the way down the throat. The term “sloppy” refers to the sensations felt during the act which can include wetness and a lot of saliva thanks to the partner’s throat muscles pushing the penis down.

This type of deep throat technique can be incredibly satisfying for both partners and can create a whole new level to their sexual experiences. For some, it can also be quite intimidating. Because of this, it’s important to take your time and go at a pace both you and your partner are comfortable with.

The Benefits of Sloppy Head

Sloppy head can provide an immense level of pleasure to both partners, regardless of their genders. For the receiving partner, the sensation can be quite unique; a deep, unpredictable and intense feeling that is hard to find any other way. For the performing partner, the pleasure is all the more intense; the deep throat sensation creates a completely different sensation that is truly unique.

One of the best benefits of slippery head is what it can do for bond between partners. The closeness and vulnerability required for sloppy head can greatly enhance the way the couple relates to each other outside the bedroom too. The trust involved and the way the couple accepts each other’s requests, needs and wants are important when it comes to any sexual act, especially this one.

The Ideal Conditions for Sloppy Head

Before you even begin, it is important to discuss with your partner what they like, what they’re comfortable with and any boundaries that may exist. Even if you have discussed this before engaging in oral sex, it’s important to reiterate what needs to be adhered to. It is essential to create a safe and trusting environment, minus any pressure to perform or make the act perfect.

It’s also important to make sure both you and your partner are sexually aroused. Take your time to explore each other’s bodies and make the slow transition from sensual to sexual. Make sure to make your role as the performing partner as comfortable and supported as possible, making sure to use plenty of lubricant and position your partner in a way that feels most pleasurable.

How to Master the Sloppy Head Technique

Although the deep throat technique can feel intimidating, it’s actually something that you can learn with practice. The key is to move slowly and make sure to do plenty of warm-up exercises. Begin with gentle licks and caresses along the shaft and make sure to vary the pressure, speed and motion of your mouth. Once your partner is aroused, you can then begin to carefully move your head down the same licking and caressing motion until you reach the base of the penis.

Once here, exhale and ensure your mouth is wet before taking the penis in the back of your throat. Make sure to use your hands to support your head and take the penis further down; you may even want to wrap one hand around the base for extra support.

If your partner does begin to thrust, make sure to use your hand to push your head away and encourage them to slow down. They should match your movements and follow own your breath. If you need to take a break, it’s important to take a few deep breaths and relax. Do this as many times as you need until you feel comfortable with the act.

As with any type of sex act, communication is incredibly important and it’s essential to speak up and communicate what feels good and what doesn’t. As long as you take it slow and steady, before you know it, you’ll have the sloppy head technique down pat!

Sloppy head can be a great experience for both partners, however it is important to take it slow and make sure everyone is comfortable. Establishing a safe, trusting and non-pressure environment for the act is essential as is making sure both partners are properly aroused and lubricated. With practice and communication, this deep throat technique can become something that greatly enhances the sexual experience for both partners. So if you’re feeling adventurous, why not give it a go?